Tuesday, March 10, 2015

How I became an Atheist: Jonathan Morales

Our club will be posting personal stories of how we each came to repudiate belief in God, so stay posted for more stories!

"Take the risk of thinking for yourself, much more happiness, truth, beauty, and wisdom will come to you that way."- Christopher Hitchens (1949-2011)

How exactly does one become an atheist? What leads to the rejection of belief in God? How does one cope with the idea of leaving behind a tight-knit religious community? These thoughts were never really things that crossed my mind when I was 16 years old; I identified as a Roman Catholic, but merely because of my circumstances. Coming from a community of Mexican-Americans, Catholicism is so deeply ingrained into my culture that being anything but a Catholic is almost akin to being anything but a Christian in the Deep South.

I was born and raised a Catholic, baptized and whatnot, but religion never really played an integral part of my life. My mother, herself a Catholic, never took it upon herself to read me Bible stories or tell me that certain thing were wrong because God said so. I was taught how to pray and other formalities, but as a youngster, I only really did this because I thought mamá knew what was best for me. Was it necessarily enforced on me? Not particularly. My mother never went out of her way to enforce beliefs on me, so religion never became a topic of discussion. We never really did attend church either, with the exception of a few weddings and the occasional quinceañera, but for the most part, we were not a church going family.

So when exactly did I begin to question my faith? During the summer before my junior year, I began to have doubts surrounding my Catholicism. This was in response to the feelings of confusion I felt when I went with a friend of mine and his mother for Ash Wednesday as part of Lent. The feeling of puzzlement while standing in church with an ash cross on my forehead left me with one question: why? Why was this necessary to please God? Following Lent, I began to think long and hard about my faith. The dormant years of my adherence to Catholicism without question were over and in ushered a period of questioning. I’ll probably end up still being a Catholic anyways, I thought to myself throughout this period. I wasn’t particularly afraid of having my beliefs challenged, so I didn’t feel afraid to dive deep into questions that might’ve made others uncomfortable.

Over the summer before my junior year, I trekked through an intellectual landscape to find answers to my questions. This mainly took form in the act of setting aside time to think critically about God. One of the most memorable moments during that summer was when I stumbled upon a debate about the existence of God from a British television show called The Big Questions. After watching the debate, I felt interested, but my mind yearned for more answers. The pragmatism of this new position I had never heard of, atheism, looked appealing to me. I ended up spending a lot of time on YouTube watching multiple debates surrounding the existence of God, but as the summer drew to a close, I didn’t really know if I would embrace atheism over Catholicism.

The fateful day where I finally self-identified as an atheist came on September 24th 2012 while I was sitting in my Advanced Placement Biology classroom. The textbook lie open in front of me, on a page depicting the Miller-Urey experiment. That moment finally hit the nail on the head for me; the experiment was so compelling that I remember looking up from the page and thinking to myself, Huh, I guess God wasn’t needed for life to begin. From that day on, I repudiated my ties to Catholicism and instead took up the label atheist. I’ve never looked back since then.

So what does life look for me now? Since I no longer believe in God, where do I stand in terms of death and my place in the world? Although I do miss the concept of eternal existence after I die, I’ve taken solace in knowing that my life now is great. Moreover, I feel that this is my only life to live, and consequently, this is the only chance I have at maximizing happiness for myself and for others I love. The world is not senseless and meaningless through the lens of atheism, but rather, it has become even more meaningful given the finitude of my existence as a living being. So is a godless life worth living? Absolutely, and I wouldn’t trade it for any dogmas anytime soon. 

Sunday, November 23, 2014

On Death and Mortality


Having recently lost my dog, the past few days have consisted mostly of crying, solitude, and a weak attempt at trying to get work done (to no effect unfortunately). Yesterday night was extremely difficult; insomnia hung over me and I couldn't muster up the strength to close my eyes since they burned. In the wee hours of the morning, I stepped outside onto the balcony to escape the confinement of my dorm room and I sat there for a good hour or so, trying to collect my thoughts on what had happened. The following is more or less a summarization of what I feel at the present moment.

I gazed on the stars and shivered and wondered if I’d ever see my dog again. Being an atheist almost always commits one to the thought that the afterlife is merely human invention meant to cope with bereavement, so reconciling this thought with my disbelief is quite a struggle. I really want to believe that somewhere, my dog is happily frolicking around like he used to, playing with the other dogs that have passed away, and awaiting my arrival into the afterlife with him. I want this to be true, but I can’t help but feel this is only wishful thinking on my part. Will I see my dog again? I don’t think so. Is this unacceptable? Yes, but reality is what it is. However, I take solace in knowing that for the decade that I owned my dog, I gave him the best life possible and I gave him my heart and soul, and I’d like to think that he did too. His finite existence with me was certainly rewarding and I think this only makes it so much more meaningful that most of his life was spent in company of a loving family who adored him. I can only hope that in his last moments, he was truly at peace and tranquil in his mind and heart, despite the fact that he’d never wake up again. I also take solace in knowing that the state of non-existence my dog currently dwells in is the one we’re all headed towards. Our lives, much like his, are finite and the day we cease to exist is the day we enter the realm of nothingness that more than likely follows. Depressing? I don’t think so. Our finite existence only magnifies that meaning of our lives we chose to espouse, and I think that having my dog’s finite existence within my own finite existence makes it so much more meaningful and significant. The day I enter the nothingness after my own passing is the day I join my dog forever in the state of non-existence, where we’ll never be apart. That being said, do I want to join him right now? No. I still have a finite existence to live out, as granted to me by Nature, and I intend on using that time wisely to bring meaning to other’s lives much like they do for me. The times are rough right now for me, but having the time to think and be alone for the past few days has been good to say the least. I can only hope that I can recover from this in due time.


Lastly, I want to say thank you to the individuals in my life, outside of this university and in this university, who lent support and a shoulder to cry on when my emotions decided to erupt. I don’t care about too many things and I don’t show emotion very regularly, but I’m truly thankful to have helpful and supportive people in my life. So, if you happen to be reading this, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I sincerely mean it.

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

There are atheists in foxholes...

"When one proudly dons a U.S military uniform, there is only one religious symbol: the American flag. There is only one religious scripture: the American Constitution. Finally, there is only one religious faith: American patriotism"- Mikey Weinstein, founder of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (link here)


As most of you may have noticed, today is Veteran's Day (or Remembrance Day for our Canadian friends). For many, it's a day to relax from school and whatnot. For others, it's a day set aside to respect the commitment some men and women made to defend their nation from all threats, foreign and domestic. While some of you reading this may disagree with the recent wars the U.S has embroiled itself in, I feel this escapes the point of today. You are free to disagree with U.S foreign policy and it's implementation (I myself think U.S foreign policy is in need of major change) and it's fine to denounce the wars. For today's post, this won't be the topic; that's a discussion for another time.

What I want to get at today is this notion that there are no atheists in foxholes, that when the bullets start flying and the shells start coming down, those who claimed to be atheists immediately turn to God. I feel this is an insult to the brave individuals who didn't turn to God when they were in the heat of combat. Moreover, it's disrespectful to the brave atheist veterans who willingly risked their lives for their fellow man (or woman), who didn't care if that comrade was religious or not. It's extremely irritating to see that people who are willing to serve their nation, populated mostly by Christians, be harassed and stigmatized for lacking faith. Really? Is this really how we want to treat people who made a commitment to you and me? Is this really how we want to thank individuals who willingly went into harm's way? If it is, you've disregarded the meaning of today and in the process acted like a self-righteous bigot. If someone's lack of faith bothers you so, perhaps it's time to re-evaluate your ideals.

Remember that today isn't just a day off, but is meant to remember that among us are individuals who took an oath to defend the constitution and everything it stands for. So, if it's not too much to ask, thank anyone you may know who was prior military (or is still serving). Beneath that uniform is a person with goals and dreams much like you and me; having met a lot of people in the military (and having a few friends currently serving), they're down to earth and great individuals, regardless of their religions or lack of. To all the veterans of the U.S Armed Forces, past and present: thank you.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

Look at the Moon: Bill Maher's Bigotry and the Tyranny of Words

Words are hard.  Hard to understand, hard to use properly, and hard to control once they’re out there.  Those of you who know me personally have heard me say this, and I certainly believe it, but even I often don't realize just how powerful and dangerous words can be.  Words are powerful because they represent reality, and they are dangerous because – and you might want to write this down – words are not reality.  They have no meaning apart from the ideas they convey, and they have no importance apart from the actions they inspire.  Ignorance of this fact is, I think, the biggest problem behind the whole Bill Maher thing.  I was bothered at first that people wouldn’t stop talking about it, because I don’t think it’s important, but the controversy has given me the opportunity to clear up something that I think is important.

I had the opportunity last Tuesday to hear from a couple of students who opposed Bill Maher’s invitation to speak at Cal's commencement, and although they were both Muslims themselves, they ostensibly didn’t object to Maher because of his criticism of Islam.  The reason they gave was that Bill Maher has a tendency to say offensive things, and someone who says such things shouldn’t be given such a prestigious platform to speak.  It was a relief to hear that they don’t have a problem with criticism of Islam (yes, maybe it’s just a giant coincidence that there also happen to be plenty of loud people in the West who try to silence any criticism of Islam, but I’ll take them at their word), but their criticism of Bill Maher qua Bill Maher demonstrates an irritating habit of focusing on language over action.  Every critic I’ve seen has been throwing out offensive quotes from him, as if they represent something other than that his job is to produce offensive quotes, and this infuriates me because it’s contrary to the most important principle for achieving success and happiness: What matters is what people do, and everything else is a lie.  Bill Maher is going to say inflammatory things in any case – an occupational hazard of being a comedian – but if one wants to object to his views, one needs to look past his words, look at his impact on the real world, in order to determine which views he actually holds.

Since this totally isn’t about criticism of Islam, let’s take as an example a Tweet that Bill Maher made recently, saying “Dealing w/ Hamas is like dealing w/ a crazy woman who’s trying to kill u – u can only hold her wrists for so long before you have to slap her”.  A member of the Facebook group showed us this Tweet last week, referencing it as an example of how Bill Maher is a sexist, and then mentioning it again, just in case we hadn’t noticed how good he was at calling things sexist.  He then went on to contemplate self harm/destruction of property due to arguments over whether the Tweet was in fact sexist.  Now, I agreed with him that the Tweet was objectionable, but I also saw that the moment he started arguing over whether the term “sexist” applied to it, he gave the conversation away to the forces of nonsense.  Protip: if you think something is bad, your time is wasted arguing over which label best applies to it, because this takes the focus entirely off why the thing itself is bad.  Let people define “sexist” any way they want, but if it's really something wrong, you still win by pointing to all the negative consequences that this Tweet produces in objective reality.  So, what effect does this Tweet have on the real world that makes it so objectionable?
“It perpetuates the stereotype of women as irrational and insane.”  In whose mind?  Yours?  Maybe if you’re an idiot.  The Tweet doesn’t say anything about women; it mentions “a woman” who isn’t even a real woman (What’s her name? How tall is she? Does she prefer Thai food or Chinese?) for the sake of a simile, to make a point about the extent to which violence can be justified in self-defense.  That’s an interesting conversation, and one worth having, but apparently the word “woman” means it’s a gender issue instead (I just thank God that the word “man” wasn’t in there to perpetuate the stereotype of men as violent and lacking in empathy).  I find it unlikely that this Tweet has actually affected gender relations.  I’m sorry you have to find out like this, dear reader, but if reading that Tweet put the belief into your head that women in general are crazy, then you were already a misogynist.  And if the Tweet just reinforced a belief you held previously, well, you shouldn’t need me to tell you.

But you didn’t think about it like that, did you?  Be honest here, did you wonder what sort of effect reading that Tweet would have on your own beliefs?  If you did, you’re a better person than you think you are.  But the rest of you had to be thinking of someone, right?  Stereotypes are beliefs held in individual minds, after all.  What kind of individual did you imagine, in whom this stereotype would be perpetuated, who would treat women differently based on a glib remark from the host of HBO’s Real Time?  It would be a strange individual indeed who held racist or sexist beliefs and looked to Bill Maher’s Twitter account for validation.  So if this isn’t the real-world impact of the Tweet, what is?

If you said, “It trivializes issues of domestic violence”, pat yourself on the back because you're looking in the right place.  If you want to know what my problem is with stuff like this, well, you’re looking at it.  This blog post that you’re reading right now, this whole conversation we're having, is part of the problem because it keeps the focus on Bill Maher’s words instead of, you know, actual domestic violence.  But that’s the System we’re all in: we are forced to focus on words over actions to assess a person’s value because the System wants us to forget that only actions matter.  It’s easier for us to use words to identify brands – and make no mistake, everything is a brand these days – so those who want to impose brands on the public do so with words.  The Tweet, like everything, is a branding move, and it has two results.  The first result is that it reinforces the branding of Bill Maher as unafraid to say abrasive things, as secure enough in his convictions that he doesn’t care whose feelings he hurts.  And so what?  I say Bill Maher can do whatever he wants with his brand, but the problem is that it’s not just his brand that’s affected.  The second result, which is less an effect than a cause of the first, is where the damage is done.  You’re not supposed to see it, but here's a hint: does persistent indignation over a comedian's 140-character comment on foreign affairs make one look more or less crazy than before?  The really serious problem that I've never seen anyone point out is that controversies like the one around this Tweet dilute the brand of Feminism.  Feminism is not an objectively real thing; like Bill Maher – or Islam, for what it’s worth – it is a brand; it’s a set of ideas and actions that we all agree to put under this label.  As such, Feminism is defined by what is done in its name.  If Feminists attack people who make disagreeable remarks on social media, then – in the public perception, at least – Feminism comes to entail attacking people who make disagreeable remarks on social media, and that’s all anyone needs to know to safely dismiss the brand altogether (e.g. "Feminists?  You mean those people who say you can never call a woman crazy, even if she's trying to kill u?").  If you want to brand yourself as the kind of person who throws a fit whenever a public figure says something unflattering, don’t be surprised when people stop listening to you, even about real issues.  But that’s exactly what the System wants.  Bill Maher and his ilk are how the System feeds your need to be outraged.  He gives you a reason to feel righteously indignant, and in turn, you safely direct your anger at his words in order to ensure that nothing important ever actually changes.

Why do you think Bill Maher made that tweet in the first place?  Who was his intended audience?  Did he want to tarnish the public perception of women?  Encourage domestic violence?  Now, I’m no mind-reader, but no.  He wanted this.  He wanted to be talked about, and he used an inflammatory analogy precisely because he knew we were going to get mad about it.  If I bought into conspiracy theories, I’d be convinced that this whole thing was a plant by the Patriarchy to discredit Feminism and take the focus off of real issues.  If Bill Maher is actually hitting women, or if people are reading his tweet and deciding that that makes it okay to hit women, that needs to stop.  This should go without saying, but violence, including violence against women, is bad.  Don't do it.  But to call Bill Maher a misogynist obfuscates the fact that there are actual misogynists.  Somewhere in the real world, at this very moment, a man is slapping a woman; do you think it's because Bill Maher told him to?  The proper response to this tweet, if you disapprove of it, is to treat it like an outburst from an annoying child: ignore it, because it doesn't actually hurt anyone, and it will stop on its own once he realizes it won't get him any attention.  As a public figure, he has no more power than what we, the public, give him.  Remember, words are nothing unless they inspire actions (which is why, contrastively, the proper response when a partner who's beaten you apologizes and says, "I love you," is to say, "That's demonstrably not true," and then duck).  I even agree that the fact that we were so receptive to a comparison between women and Hamas – i.e. no matter what you think of the Tweet, its specific mention of "a woman" isn’t a total non-sequitur – but come on, guys.  You know we live in a rape culture, right?  Tweets do not hurt women.  Fists hurt women.  Unwanted pregnancies hurt women.  Poor educational opportunities hurt women.  Will attacking Bill Maher fix these things, or anything?  Will it even make him less likely to say sexist things in the future?  Or is he a diversion?  I totally get that it’s easier to call out hypocrisy on Twitter than actually do something about anything, but at least recognize that it's the path of least resistance, and don't present it to us all like you're doing the Lord's work.  That's not how progress happens.

The saying goes, “Truth has nothing to do with words.  Truth can be likened to the bright moon in the sky. Words, in this case, can be likened to a finger.  The finger can point to the moon’s location.  However, the finger is not the moon.  To look at the moon, it is necessary to gaze beyond the finger, right?”  Words are not reality; words are cheap.  Language is a tool, a logical system that we use for describing and interpreting reality.  It is the wall between our minds and the world we inhabit. This fact seems obvious when it’s right in front of you, but it is terrifyingly easy to forget.  Our relationship with language is the most unique aspect of the human condition, and to forget it is to abandon one’s commitment to rationality.  So, what does Bill Maher really believe?  Unless you can read the man’s mind, the answer to this question is found in his actions, in how he treats the people in his life.  The question worth asking is, what does he do?  Remember, everything else is a lie.

Thursday, October 30, 2014

Welcome to the official blog of the Berkeley Atheists and Skeptics Society (BASS) at Cal!

Dear Reader,

First and foremost, I want to welcome you to the official blog of UC Berkeley's one and only atheist and skeptic society, or BASS as us members call it.

This blog was started in the hopes of spreading our ideals of rationalism, reason, and honest inquiry, among other things. Here, you'll be able to read posts from club members about topics ranging from societal effects of religion to discussion/criticism of philosophical arguments for the existence of God. It is our hope that these blog posts will help the Berkeley campus, and society in general, understand the ideas of atheists like ourselves, who are generally misunderstood or not heard enough in certain regions of the world.

By the way, just a quick introduction, I'm Jonathan Morales, a freshman hoping to major in history here at the University of California Berkeley. Stay tuned for more updates from our club blog as there's more to come! See you guys soon ;)